SHOW NOTES:

Dr Paul’s discussion focuses on the second step of sexual attraction, emphasizing the importance of communicating interest while maintaining a sense of mystery. At this stage, the woman should feel beautiful and intrigued by the man, allowing her to express her attraction subtly. If done correctly, she will notice increased eye contact and an unconscious drawing closer to him, energized by his vitality and confidence.

Effective communication includes confidently giving compliments, enhancing physical engagement through body language—such as tilting hips and head, maintaining eye contact, and smiling—and making the conversation feel natural and inviting.

The man’s role in this step is to act gentlemanly, exuding a quality reminiscent of a caring yet mysterious father figure. He should be generous with his time and attention but still maintain an element of intrigue without being overly emotional. This combination of traits may evoke unconscious similarities to the father figure in a woman's life, influencing her attraction dynamics.

Overall, the interaction relies on a balance where both parties engage confidently while retaining individuality and allure.

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